Locked Out: The Dilemma of Closing Online Doors in Faith Communities

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By Rev. Timoth Sylvia

Earlier this year, we launched a new initiative – the Convergence Digital Ministry Fellowship Program. The intent of this program
is to respond to 21st century challenges in 21st century ways – to empower leaders who can model what digital ministry could look
like in various contexts, to equip and inspire faith leaders in varying contexts with different technological abilities to take their
necessary next step in digital ministry, and to look forward to where this might be headed rather than perpetually looking back
and wishing we could relive our “glory days” of the past. This article is written by one of our fellows.

I wasn’t sure what to think of the chain and padlock on the church’s exterior door. I thought it odd, at first. Couldn’t the door be secured from the inside? Other doors to the church were being used regularly. And yet this one, located some distance from the church’s main entrance, has clearly been rendered inaccessible… no longer in service.

It’s as if this door, initially constructed as an access point for those in the faith community, had served its purpose and now has been closed indefinitely. And it has been locked… with a chain and a padlock, making it very clear that no one is to use it again.

As our faith communities continue to emerge from the COVID-19 pandemic, we are seeing more and more churches make a similar decision to close off one of their access points. Numerous churches that scrambled to take their ministries online in order to keep their faith communities connected have now decided that the online experience was only temporary. It served a purpose for a period of time. And now that time is over. And subsequently, that door has now been closed.

For many faith communities, the work to get their ministries online was hard. And with the ghost of the past years’ average worship attendance numbers constantly looking over their shoulders, the online worship experience wasn’t providing them with what they had been used to, if not at least what they were hoping for.

So the decision was made to put that experience behind them and get back to the way things were before.

Here’s what I fear many faith communities neglected to consider when making the decision to close their online door… there are people on the other side. There are people who were accessing their ministries online and who many never step foot in their brick and mortar structures.

I wonder how many of those who made the decision to close that door did so after consulting with those in their online community?

I wonder how many churches saw the online experience as nothing more than “a necessary evil?” And now that in-person gatherings are back to providing the familiar experiences of the past, there’s seemingly no need for it.

And now, those who had been entering into the shared ministries through this online door are forced to look elsewhere.

If you are part of a faith community that has already made this decision, I’m not sure what I can say that will encourage you to reconsider. However, if you’ve purchased the padlock and chain and have yet to install them, I invite you to take a moment before putting them in place.

Pause to consider the experiences of those who found a connection to your ministries through the gift of technology. Consider what it would mean for them to lose access to the work and ministry you are seeking to share with the world. And then perhaps consider how you might be able to keep that door open for them.

And yes, I know… cultivating online ministry isn’t easy for everyone. And it’s different. And what we put out over the internet isn’t always perfect. And that’s okay! It doesn’t need to be perfect in order to be meaningful to those on the receiving end.

The truth is, our churches recognized the need to provide an access point during a time when the former ways of showing up were not possible. And that access point allowed our churches to share the gospel much further than ever before. And now, some of us stand ready with the chain and padlock in our hands, contemplating the closure of doors that once bridged the gap between our in-person faith communities and those online.

Let’s not rush to fasten these symbolic barriers. Instead, let us embrace the expansive opportunities that digital ministry provides.

And in doing so, may we move forward witnessing our ministries as they touch the lives of those both near and far, allowing the gospel to have a much broader range and impact than we could ever have imagined. And may our doors remain open to the possibilities.

Learn more about the Digital Ministry Fellows.
Contact Rev. Timoth Silvia.

Comments

  1. Thank you for this! I know of many pastors who are frustrated that some folks who left haven’t come back. They aren’t feeling that people at risk who still don’t feel safe should come back….but some for whom “staying home” is just easier. And I understand that frustration. And honestly, most of them aren’t considering *stopping* online ministry….but I do worry if the lower attendance continues, if they might? As for the ones that are discontinuing online worship (and other activities), they simply are not thinking of all of their flock (or potential flock). Full stop.

  2. The accessibility offered via online broadcast of church services are an especially welcome innovation for many people who are not given a heartfelt welcome at most churches — people living with disabilities. Ministers should remember that those present in most every church are not representative of their community, 20% of which live with disabling conditions. WE NEED TO MAINTAIN ONLINE ACCESS TO YOUR SERVICES!!!

  3. Comments I have heard from people who started “attending” online church services were how they are much more likely to attend when they can get up late and not have to dress and drive there. My own experience of online “stuff”, as a woman 72 years old, is that digital is better than nothing but that to rely on it as an exclusive offering for anyone is not meeting one of the most basic tenets of what religion is, whether Christian or not: getting together to worship within a sacred space where you bump into others who would never be bumped into, while creating something that does not exist anywhere else. That something is based on a sense of trust and literal communion such that you will go out of your way if one of the members is in trouble. Studies on the mental health and also the productivity of workers who were no longer coming into the office space showed clearly that coming together with other persons is a huge boost in both those areas. Some employers are now making it mandatory to come into the office once or twice a week. Let’s not equate the “comfort” of having church in your own home with what the greatest commandment actually requires.

  4. Amen, amen. I speak from the perspective of a retired UCC clergy person, who retired two years before the pandemic. And who ended up being so grateful I didn’t have to figure out the incredibly hard solutions to incredibly hard problems and pain that emerged. I experienced on-line worship both in my home church which went on-line quite quickly, and in a church in our Conference but some 250 miles from here, whose minister I had heard good things about, and whose sermons I thoroughly enjoyed. From my experience, even if I will never meet any of the “real people” at that real church, I’ve still developed strong feelings of bonding with some of them (I also participated in a weekly Scripture discussion group of theirs). I’m guessing that’s true of many of the folks who’ve worshipped with us long-distance over the past couple of years. I think it is a huge disservice pastorally to take away a church-family that folks have connected with. In fact, I was thinking the other day that it could be really helpful for National to give those churches some tips on how to connect more effectively with their on-line participants.

  5. As a vulnerable person, going to church in person when congregations can’t be bothered to wear masks to protect “the least of these” is out of the question. As believers we are called to sacrifice our wants and meet the needs of others. This includes either having a separate space for those who want or need to wear masks, which is rare at best, or asking the whole congregation to do so in order to support those who are at increased risk — and I haven’t seen that anywhere. Having to worship at home because I’m not welcome at church due to my need to wear a mask – and/or the nasty comments I get from people who claim I lack faith – violates the teachings of Jesus. The vulnerable and medically fragile matter, too. Our need for fellowship doesn’t stop because we have health concerns. Why should we be forced to choose between worshiping with other believers at church or being isolated at home? How is that Christ-like? Would Jesus tell me to abandon reasonable precautions during a pandemic? I don’t get it. I’ve been forced out of church by people whose goal in life should be to reach out to those in need — not reject them.

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